new year resolutions

New year resolutions is tough business,its not an issue to be taken lightly at all,for someone like me i have stop making resolutions especially at the beginning of the year.Why you may ask?i don't want to sound too righteous but i don't need it anymore,i feel resolutions are oats you take at the beginning of the year to stop sinning and starts doing good(if I'm wrong correct me)as a single young girl when i was in Niger, i could remember going to RCCG end of the year retreat,on leaving the camp i would have made up my mind to stop having boyfriend and committing fornication,alas! b/4 the end of January I'm back again,you know what?that was my problem as a young lady,now what resolution am i to make?i have a lord over my head,my children to care for, so what else?Although we face alot of challenges over here as blacks but its a lesser evil compared to temptations been faced daily in my dear motherland.The only problems i see as temptations here are my fellow Nigerians,they are still the same as ever,even worst.my fellow brothers/sisters en diaspora are always eager to stab you in the back,looking for fast ways to get money from their fellow Nigerians,causing problems between their fellow Nigerians and whites etc.Make i state for instance,una no sey for here,we wen get paper dey give out to those wen no get for them to work with,ok,if nigerman get wahala with him fellow nigerman,maybe misunderstanding,he go call oyinbo company sey the person wen dey work for them no be him get paper,dis thing good my people?All I'm saying in a nutshell is that i don't what to make a resolution not to communicate with my fellow Nigerians bcos of these,we should learn to tolerate one another as brothers in Diaspora.